Okay I am a slacker
Well friends.. I am apologizing for becoming one of those ~hey I am going to post more often bloggers~ I have just had a crazy life lately. It will get better though.. soon. I promise to try to post at the very least once a week. Some of you may have to nudge me a little but I'll get there I promise.
Anyway, the latest on my stalker is.. well as you can see they ran away.. and the detective handling my case is slack.. so, my mom has made a suggestion that I will probably make use of. More about that later. I am planning to persue this issue. If I knew who it was I might let it go but I don't so I can't. This person got out of hand and then they tucked their tail and ran.. they hated me enough to play with my life but they were to much of a coward to do it to my face. Now I feel like I need to take care of it. So I am.
Next, my sister's life has gotten a little more difficult. Wade is gone.. everyone knows that.. and she is okay with it.. Recently a friend that has been a very close friend of hers for ten years or so had come back into her life. They were getting to be very close again and she finally had someone to talk too. I have known this girl since we were about fifteen and I was very glad to see my sister reforming a friendship that Wade did everything in his power to destroy. Well, Thanksgiving Sarah(the friend) came over to eat with our family. She stayed at my mom's doing my daughter's hair until about two in the morning. She had been really depressed and being there lifted her spirits. So, she came back on Friday and stayed until about two a.m. again.. she had all four of her kids with her and they had piled up in the bedroom and went to sleep and her and my sister had stayed up talking for hours. Sarah left and took her babies home and put them to bed. The next morning my sister recieved a phone call from Sarah's husband telling her Sarah had passed away the night before. My sister thought he was playing a cruel joke on her because he didn't want her being friends with Sarah so she told him what a creep he was for doing that and hung up the phone. After thinking about it for a few hours she decided to call Sarah's husband back and tell him that she would just stop hanging out with Sarah if it was that important to him. She didn't want to cause them problems in their relationship. He told her that he was wrong for ever feeling that way.. but it didn't matter anymore because she really was dead. So she gets off the phone with him still thinking that he is just being an ass because only hours before she had been with her friend. So, she picks up the phone book and calls one of the two most 'popular' funeral homes in the area. The first one she calls confirms the death of her beloved friend. At 26 years old, Sarah had died in her sleep. Possibly of a accidental overdose on her pain medication. My sister was devistated. She still is. The poor girl has had enough already. She keeps blaming herself because she is afraid that Sarah was in pain from over doing it helping her with the kids. She left behind four children.. one of them is a year old and he was still breast feeding.. So, those of you that pray.. keep her in your prayers.. those of you that don't.. keep her in your thoughts.. if nothing else.. hold your loved ones a little closer to you.. call your mom, send flowers to your sister.. tell your friends how important they are to you.. they may not know..
I for one hold my kids just a little tighter when they kiss me goodnight.. and now I want to tell all of you that are my friends how much I appreciate having you in my life.. before I went back to work I didn't have any friends.. I didn't think I was missing anything.. boy was I wrong.. and that's not easy for me to admit.. but I was. Having you all makes my days a little easier to get through. My life is a little more dramatic now than it used to be.. but what the hell.. it keeps it interesting. Now, I am going to go to bed.. but first.. Michelle, if you ever make your way back to read this.. I hope your feeling much better.
I'm out.
Anyway, the latest on my stalker is.. well as you can see they ran away.. and the detective handling my case is slack.. so, my mom has made a suggestion that I will probably make use of. More about that later. I am planning to persue this issue. If I knew who it was I might let it go but I don't so I can't. This person got out of hand and then they tucked their tail and ran.. they hated me enough to play with my life but they were to much of a coward to do it to my face. Now I feel like I need to take care of it. So I am.
Next, my sister's life has gotten a little more difficult. Wade is gone.. everyone knows that.. and she is okay with it.. Recently a friend that has been a very close friend of hers for ten years or so had come back into her life. They were getting to be very close again and she finally had someone to talk too. I have known this girl since we were about fifteen and I was very glad to see my sister reforming a friendship that Wade did everything in his power to destroy. Well, Thanksgiving Sarah(the friend) came over to eat with our family. She stayed at my mom's doing my daughter's hair until about two in the morning. She had been really depressed and being there lifted her spirits. So, she came back on Friday and stayed until about two a.m. again.. she had all four of her kids with her and they had piled up in the bedroom and went to sleep and her and my sister had stayed up talking for hours. Sarah left and took her babies home and put them to bed. The next morning my sister recieved a phone call from Sarah's husband telling her Sarah had passed away the night before. My sister thought he was playing a cruel joke on her because he didn't want her being friends with Sarah so she told him what a creep he was for doing that and hung up the phone. After thinking about it for a few hours she decided to call Sarah's husband back and tell him that she would just stop hanging out with Sarah if it was that important to him. She didn't want to cause them problems in their relationship. He told her that he was wrong for ever feeling that way.. but it didn't matter anymore because she really was dead. So she gets off the phone with him still thinking that he is just being an ass because only hours before she had been with her friend. So, she picks up the phone book and calls one of the two most 'popular' funeral homes in the area. The first one she calls confirms the death of her beloved friend. At 26 years old, Sarah had died in her sleep. Possibly of a accidental overdose on her pain medication. My sister was devistated. She still is. The poor girl has had enough already. She keeps blaming herself because she is afraid that Sarah was in pain from over doing it helping her with the kids. She left behind four children.. one of them is a year old and he was still breast feeding.. So, those of you that pray.. keep her in your prayers.. those of you that don't.. keep her in your thoughts.. if nothing else.. hold your loved ones a little closer to you.. call your mom, send flowers to your sister.. tell your friends how important they are to you.. they may not know..
I for one hold my kids just a little tighter when they kiss me goodnight.. and now I want to tell all of you that are my friends how much I appreciate having you in my life.. before I went back to work I didn't have any friends.. I didn't think I was missing anything.. boy was I wrong.. and that's not easy for me to admit.. but I was. Having you all makes my days a little easier to get through. My life is a little more dramatic now than it used to be.. but what the hell.. it keeps it interesting. Now, I am going to go to bed.. but first.. Michelle, if you ever make your way back to read this.. I hope your feeling much better.
I'm out.
posted by mystix at 9:56 PM
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